I Express, I Reblog, I Agree.
- Solve Arguments Peacefully - Notice yourself fighting your better half more lately? The only quick-fix is to stop doing it. The best couples are those who know when their partner is angry and when not to talk back to him/her. During fights, it is best to keep as calm and collected as possible and to not fight back. As long as one side stays calm, the other will follow. Things won’t go As far as broken dishes and hearts if arguments are avoided and solved quickly.
- Spend More Quality Time Together - One-on-one time is HIGHLY important for couples. Instead of arranging special Lunches and dinners with your friends, give your better half a day or two just for them. Spend the entire day doing the things you two love and stay really close. Listen to your favorite music, watch your favorite movies, go to your favorite restaurants, in short just what you two love doing together. Couples who spend more quality time together are more attracted to each other and tend to last longer than those who don’t.
I lost the will to fight for our friendship,
And our mentorship.
In the first place, I don’t know why I’m fighting for a right to be in your life.
I don’t deserve the right to be close to anyone.
And not even to you.
Thank you, for giving me the privilege to be a close friend towards you
Yet I know that we can’t carry on being like this.
I’m sorry, I love you,
But I can’t deal with the distance, even when it’s suppose to be healthy for the both of us.
For the sake of both of us, for the sake of yours,
We have to let this go.
because this is the last time I ever want to hurt you,
Don’t try to spend every hour of every day with her unless you want her to feel so bombarded that she tailspins into a mess of tears, word vomit and utter confusion, ending with her breaking it off and swearing to never interact with another human ever again.
But when you are together, be together. Completely. Let her know she is loved until she begins to understand what that feels like, and then keep doing it. If it’s right, she’ll come around. And because she’s loyal by nature, she’ll stick around, too (so don’t give her any reason to think that you won’t).
Truly, this girl has a lot of love to give, even if she’s a bit awkward in showing it at first. She just needs time—time to figure things out for herself, to better understand how this works.